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Clear Path

An online coaching programme with a video course and a workbook, designed to help you gain clarity about what you want, whichever way you go.

Clear Path is not open to join yet. You can register your interest below. The price and the refund terms will be shown clearly before anyone joins.

What Clear Path is

Clear Path is built around a video course and a workbook. You can work through it at your own pace and come back to any part whenever you need to. It's not about fixing your partner, saving your marriage or preparing to leave. It's about understanding what you want and need, so you can make decisions from a place of clarity rather than confusion.

The workbook goes alongside the videos. It's where you do the reflection work. It gives you structure without telling you what to think or feel.

What's inside

1. Where Am I Now

Helps you understand your current situation without judgement or pressure to make immediate decisions. You map your relationship timeline and acknowledge patterns you have noticed over time.

2. What Do I Actually Need

Helps you tell your own needs apart from the expectations other people have placed on you, and notice where there are gaps between what you want and what you are currently experiencing.

3. Understanding My Relationship Patterns

Looks at recurring dynamics in your marriage and other close relationships, including communication styles and how you each tend to respond when things feel tense.

4. Getting Organised Financially

Supports you in gathering financial information so you can make decisions based on what is happening rather than assumptions. This is coaching guidance, not financial or legal advice.

5. Children and Family

Looks at how to think about your children's wellbeing and your extended family relationships while things are uncertain.

6. Having Difficult Conversations

Helps you prepare for conversations you may have been avoiding, with adaptable wording and frameworks you can customise.

7. Making My Decision

Takes you through a decision making process that takes account of both your feelings and your practical reality.

8. Your Action Plan

Helps you turn your thinking into next steps, whatever you decide, or if you decide to wait.

Planned bonuses

  • Conversation Toolkit with example wording you can adapt
  • Financial Snapshot Guide, which is not financial advice
  • Decision Journal for noticing patterns over time
  • Audio Prompts for Reflection, which are not therapy
  • Document Organiser for keeping important paperwork in one place

These bonuses are planned. They are not legal, financial or therapeutic advice.

Clear Path may be for you if

  • You're married and unsure whether to stay or go
  • You're thinking about divorce
  • You've recently separated or divorced and want to think about where things are now and what comes next
  • You want space to think without being pushed in any direction

Clear Path is not for you if

  • You want someone to tell you what to do
  • You want your partner blamed or shamed
  • You're looking for legal or financial advice
  • You're experiencing abuse. Please contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.

Register your interest

Tell us where to send news about Clear Path. There's no pressure and no countdown.

Clear Path is coaching, not therapy, legal advice or financial advice. Refund terms will be shown clearly before you join. Live group coaching and one to one coaching may become available later.